Over 200 confirms and I still haven't gotten a transfer I made over 6 hours ago. I made it from a 1.0.4 wallet to a 1.0.5 wallet on different computers. I'm afraid to upgrade the other wallet at the risk of losing those coins from what other people are saying. Losing coins is completely unacceptable.
The only way you can lose valid coins is by losing your wallet. There is no reason to fear upgrading. The people talking about losing coins were mining "LABH COIN on their own chains when the network was segmented
This is true.. older clients have trouble syncing to the correct chain, which is probably why your transaction failed to show..
The coins are not lost(assuming they were mined prior to the network segmentation), they are still available to you, simply upgrade to the latest client.