all the criteria that you mention are very interesting especially at the second point where you say that a good gambler who can control himself, yes that is true because usually the defeat we do in terms of gambling is an uncontrolled emotion and only thinking in terms of just win.
That makes a gambler good and responsible if he can control himself. Many gamblers can't do that and even the professionals are loosing themselves though they are used to this type of hobby and source of living. Emotion is one of the hardest opponent whether in gambling or trading.
Not being able to control your emotions well in gambling will indeed affect your mentality in gambling, but the worst thing is when greed is flaring up on you that will make you lose more on the game. So there are many criteria for a gambler and we cannot equate the criteria of people who have high emotions and greed because they are different.