I don't know if you're a scammer or not, my stance on that is dubious. But many people don't trust or like you because they think that you're either trying to kiss some people's ass/ that you're some sort of con artist /ponzi scammer / that escrow offer deal that came out of nowhere.

About hilariousetc's tag : He is trying to protect other users, when people have scammed others for mere cents, 100,000$ is a lot of money, even though it may seem less to others, it's a lot, and no one likes to be scammed. So he's not wrong there.

Do I trust you : No, not because of your history or whatever, but I just don't trust anybody on this forum enough to escrow or even trade with, it'll probably be the last thing for me to do.

People aren't going to give you advice on what to do, some things you got to figure out for yourself. Secondly, it's a forum, your reputation here isn't going to change anything IRL. But you definitely made a HUGE mistake in linking your IRL name and other important details, very BIG mistake. Shit happens, I know, but you should have been careful. That's all I got to say for now.