Ok i send some coins to myself, they didnt arrive.
I did some testing and i think i found what the problems was.

The first version of this coin kept disconnecting and corrupted the blockchain locally. So when the new one got out we still had problems.

So i removed the whole blockchain en redownloaded, ran the test again by sending some coins and they arrived.
I'm doing some small tests now and hopefully this will fix all issues

Going to check if it crashes again and such and see if coins arrive.
I'll keep you updated.