Unfortunately you have joined in the wrong ICOs. Definitely there are so many good project that pay well. But before joining, you have to be more calculative to find out the most prospective one. In recent time, I think, blockchain based ICOs are performing well. You should research on those kind of projects and the team working behind it. By analyzing properly, you can overcome the situation.
But one thing, don't loose hope. Here none can be rich over the night.