Do you see how stupid the religious ideologies are? Not only they teach you nonsense, but the moral code they espouse is abhorrent.
Have you checked out Buddhism?
As much as I abhor religion (and you know I do), I can't seem to find flaws with Buddhism... just saying
I am intrigued by the meditation and the inner reflection aspect of it. I think I read in Sam Harris book that there are some monks that can dissociate their own ego from their mind and see the world in a completely different way.
I have a hard time accepting the rebirth idea because I cannot prove that animals (humans) have a soul and I cannot prove that there is life after death. It is all too supernatural to give it a serious consideration.
I think you have to put your secular glasses on when you read the Buddist doctrine as this ideology is not immune to violence.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Buddhism_and_violenceYou have to cherry pick the good bits but the moral code is better than any of the Abrahamic religions.
Buddhism, quite simply, is a path to inner wisdom... dissociation with the ego is normal and expected... you can't see the truth when you blind yourself from it (ex. BADecker)
Reincarnation is a bit sketchy, and usually just used as an excuse similar to "god did it". I'm fairly convinced this is used as a tool, not meant to be taken literally. Buddhists say things like, "When you want to enter a house, you might pick up a brick to knock on the door, but you don't carry that brick into the house with you"... or "When you want to cross a river, you use a boat to get across, but you don't carry the boat with you once you get to the other side"... basically, once you get it, you get it, and don't need to use those tools anymore
There are no violent teaching of any kind in Buddhism... if a Buddhist is violent, it simply shows that he doesn't understand... people from any religion can be violent, particularly if they don't get it
I haven't had to cherry pick anything from Buddhism... I can't find much that I disagree with beyond perhaps Rebirth since there is no scientific evidence for it (though it does make a lot more sense than having 1 life to find the correct religion or whatever)