It was a very good thing to share your own story with everyone, because the new entrants are entering with great enthusiasm. Of course, these expectations never happen because it is almost impossible to realize these dreams with zero knowledge. Contrary to these dreams, many investors are completing their transactions with great damage and are getting soured from both daily and long-term investments.
Newbies are always entering a space most times, without having to take the deep knowledge they need to be able to do well. Trading will always be unhealthy for anyone who approaches it with levity, no knowledge, no practice to gain some experience and subject to losing a lot, which is why a lot of people get too emotional, at some point, start chasing loss recovery because they seem to see trading as gambling. As long as you do not have what it takes to guide you most of the time, you will always get screwed and at the end perform in some unhealthy activities yourself, and it is has nothing to do with trading but you.