All good, U_L.
Gotta realize that while it's OK to have personal issues, when they are surfaced in an online forum (like this one), they can be misinterpreted as falsifying information, a big no-no.

Anonymity is certainly a core component of Bitcoin and I don't blame you for adhering to this.

Vod & you might have some issues to work out, but ultimately I think this just boils down to letting bygones be bygones.  This is the internet and you two will never meet.  Vod has some reason for being skeptical and you have some reason for being angry at this skepticism.  The burden of truth always falls on the one not telling the truth though, and here, gender-issues notwithstanding, you didn't tell the truth so the burden of resolution falls on you.

I emplore you to make amends with Vod and move on.  I give you due respect for not simply abandoning your account.

Take care.