There is a concept called discretion, which involves personal choice(s).. and yes BIG words and ideas, in the case that you seem to be admitting to having difficulties understanding certain seemingly obvious points, connections and concepts (whether purposeful or not).

I doubt that you can determine arm-chair psychology in a sufficient enough manner to understand the purpose(s) behind any members posting behaviors, unless the member tells you, and surely reading a bunch of posts might not be enought to figure out what you are attempting to assert as your supposedly sage advice.

Anyhow, you seem to be dealing with a lot of insufficient information/knowledge and a considerable amount of presumption.