Dude, we can't improve your life, only you can improve it. Talk to your wife and just ignore the market right now.

If you are longing for her care, talk to her as it's the only solution that you can come up with during this negative market. Negative market doesn't mean that your wife's love for you is also negative. Treat her somewhere and start making romance to her, bring back the good ol' days when you are courting her.  This is the romantic way but if you want it the easier way, well its up to you.