First rule of bitcoin is: never share your private keys... And that's exactly what's needed in order for anybody to help you...

I'd personally go for one of these options:
1) Let somebody assist you on how to proceed on your own system... Work with somebody that doesn't have access to your system, but share logs and screenshots so he/she can help you... Be carefull not to share the wallet.dat or the private keys. If you want to, i can help you out, but since it's a private job and not a public service, i'd probably charge you for my time... No offence, but i've tried helping out new members in private several times, and usually it's very time consuming, and the new member usually dissapears without even saying thank you after they've regained access to their funds... So i no longer do private charity work.

2) find somebody with massive green trust, ask him/her to help you.. I've heared good things about this guy => https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?action=profile;u=130960 <= but i cannot vouch for him personally since i've always solved my own problems