Like I said before, we differ in a way we perceive the reality around us.
I am looking at what it is.
You are looking at what it could be.
Here is a video I think you might enjoy af_newbie.
Its an old paper of CS Lewis the author of the Chronicles of Narnia and other works narrated and put in a video.
I think does a good job of highlighting the differences in the way we look at the world.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X9fR1vSxNEQ&list=PL1mr9ZTZb3TXLlFRLu7mffDdfpUWo6Vl5