So you don't accept the right of people to govern their own society. Then why argue your point? You don't need to convince anyone as no-one has the right to self government.
If you join this society of your own free will, and you personally agree to it's terms, then sure, govern away. Just don't force others to be a member of your society. Therein lies the difference.
Additionally, me being born into your society doesn't make me a slave/member of your society either. Children are incapable of binding contracts due to their lack of understanding. Parents can make some decisions about how their children will live, but when those children assert their independence they acquire their autonomy (self-governing).
Freedom of choice vs. Slavery. How many times do we need to say it before it sinks in?