I solo mined a block and it said accepted, and then i saw transaction come in, but when i went to the wallet there is 0 coins 
click transactions. if it has a "?" it means it was an orphan(reject)... it means some one else was solving for that block and got to it before you.
i must have gotten about 200 rejects
It's not in transactions at all though...
I guess I'll just go to sleep, this isn't worth it