How long will you waver between two opinions. Sometimes opinions might even be more than two.
I am not saying you should not ask for people's opinion, but that there are some things you should decide on your own, based on your observation or research.
Take for instance, you want to buy a coin and you are asking people for their opinion on it. I will not deceive you, you will only be tod what will benefit them.
Everyone is looking for how the coin he is holding will pump, so he will do what will bring him profit.
Do your research on the coin of your choice
Search for updates
Go through their social media groups, handles or channels and see what is happening. That can give you a clue to what you should do.
Avoid being deceived by multiple opinions and do make the decision that suits you.
Taking a decision will certainly be very difficult if you do not have knowledge. You better learn and understand about the coins you want to invest. Many coins that don't have potential in the future so holding coins will only become trash in the future. You must be patient and continue to learn and increase knowledge.
I think there are many things depending on the reality of the project, we still cannot fully grasp the safety of the project. As Apollo (APL), these days there are many posts on reddit that claim it all features to create a big scam affair.