I have accepted that this might take for ever, but I would love to get some pointers and help from the community, and I'll make sure to reward anyone who contributes to the solving of this problem.

Having 14 possible words of a 12 word seed makes 43 589 145 600 possible arrangements. Let's say 5% of those gives a correct checksum. That would be 2 179 457 280 combinations.
If I somehow managed to check 1000 addresses each second it would take at max a month to find the correct one. I recon it should be able to push that number. I am also fairly sure about some of the words, which should bring down the possible amount of addresses.

I am using btctools for Python at the moment. I have no idea if it should take this long to generate, on the other hand, when using sites as https://iancoleman.io/bip39/ it generates 20 publickeys in a second. I am sure it must be a faster way then the one I am using.

My method right now:
1. Generage huge lists of possible combinations of seeds, ex. oven rifle phrase planet dirt true cinnamon kick first echo thing excuse
2. Run through the list line by line and generate BIP32 root key ex. xprv9s21ZrQH143K3HKXZ8ZPebpXnQbWRsQeKnoUbu7BzMpgtym7ya8hPaF2dmFS621C2BMnvCb3qYj 4cL7GiVK1VNmnA7wxFtPmBT8U1xUW8D6
3. Derive the BIP44 address from this root key, ex. 1NF7rutG9zTiZ7HbYuqmik2Sbb8HwqJcqG
4. Check the given addresses against blockchain.