lets assume that we all have friends but we truely know that there are friends and there are close friends. the true friends and they anyhow friends. it is very hard to make up the real true friends. if you have one. A one true friend. hold on to him/her. if you loose him/her. you never meet such again.
for my friend searching for womens i guess.  go back to your old friends and apologies for what happen. make it up with her.