thank you SO much! the snapshot worked, would give you some merit if I had some.

are these the valid addnodes?

addnode=167.114.249.196
addnode=98.115.147.74
addnode=85.172.60.17
addnode=84.234.52.190
addnode=5.189.142.181
addnode=128.68.35.243
addnode=92.81.74.69
addnode=24.37.43.158
addnode=98.115.147.74
addnode=167.114.249.196
addnode=159.253.21.64
addnode=62.176.18.122
addnode=46.39.241.73
addnode=109.121.4.239
addnode=89.222.233.222


ok, so now my walllet is synced but I don't have my full balance

tried checkwallet and it shows some mismatched spent coins

but when trying repair wallet it gives me:
 
CDB : Error -30973, can't open database  (code -1)


suggestions?