What happened to the site and my bitcoins?
How many coins did you have deposited into his site?
That's not really a polite question, the quantity doesn't matter to anyone but him.
Not to be impolite myself, but it's a pertinent question as it seems readily apparent that the fellow was / is going to offer some free bitcoin to play with at his poker site. Perhaps he should have said "PM me" instead, but I don't see what's wrong with asking, especially when intent is so obvious.
It's good marketing.
-Jonathan