You want to be the girl
he wants to marry to, like you see in the movies, but I guess life isn't a movie

Men aren't supposed to want to get married. Anything that slaps on a gallon of makeup and tries to get people to look at it all day in order to extract resources from them is called a prostitute. Some women stand on the side of the road and hold up their thumb like a hitchhiker to try and accomplish this task - the short con. Others attempt to latch onto their prey and try to trick them into being their workmule donkey to waste their entire life pandering to the woman's frivolous and meaningless desires: marriage - the long con.
As you can see, all forms of female behavior revolve around prostitution, just expressed in different ways. Some men make the mistake of believing they're recruiting some type of team member to be on their team, but this is entirely false. As easily seen by things like Briffault's law, female behavior is generally sociopathic towards men with no concept of loyalty, duty, or responsibility whatsoever and the woman is clearly never on your team and always solely on her own team. Marriage for a man is essentially a form of malinvestment - becoming the caretaker of a prositute.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/machiavellians-gulling-the-rubes/201610/briffaults-law-women-rule