In 2 days this will be buried and people don't even know about the other, already closed thread in project development. If you want to learn about screwups, prepare for a nice read.
Trusting this forum (that regularly 502s) to deliver PMs and thinking they are an official way to reach Bitfinex is... not a smart idea. Send E-Mails and/or contact them on their own support forum if you reallly need to reach someone.
You clearly underestimate - at least my - capability for annoying the hell out of someone that did me wrong.
You can be certain that if they don't give me back my money, in a year from now, I'll still be pinging this thread regularly and talking about their screw up and the unprofessional way they are handling the matter.