Ok it makes a little more sense now, I believe I see the lions share of the problem (IE bigger than reorganizing).

Ive got two nodes that dont agree here, both consider one of the forks valid but node 2 is following a shorter chain.
Looking at the log on node2, it feels the list of sanctuaries is different than node1.  Another words, it has a view of sanctuary payments that differs from other parts of our network.

So basically the sanctuary payment is enforced with a hard rule - and this can cause a fork.  We need to either A) Sync all the sancs, or B) Temporarily not enforce that sancs get paid properly.

Ill work on B at a network level now.

Sancs:  Please try to sync to the top so your data can synchronize.