The kitty and the statistician both should confirm their gender.
I assume they want to stay anonymous but revealing their gender won't make a difference I believe.
But the fact is,
Some say "he/him when they think MALE" and
Some say "she/her when they think female" and
Some say nothing when they think they are 3rd gender (I don't know the exact term for 3rd gender), it is just an assumption.
Now, at least tell us your gender so that we can identify appropriately.

There is also a confusion with VOD, his profile says MALE, but how he LICKS HIS BOOBS? There is a high chance that he is not he, but she?
Note #1: Please mind that if you confirm your gender as FEMALE then we may start flirting with you guys.

Note #2: If I hurt anyone then let me know I will delete the thread.