This is clear abuse, you would be saying the opposite if it was someone you weren't fond of.
No there is some reason why they send 10 merits to the post like what happened to me before that I'm sending 1 merit but accidentally sent 10 merits and sometimes I accidentally double sent merits. So we can't consider it as abuse.
Oh, he made an excuse, so there is no chance he might be lying, right?
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Possible but you need a proof that he is lying.