I was sending the coin from a paxful wallet.
I copied the address from electrum to the paxful site so I still have all the information

... and I made a boo boo
this is the address
12d8ev8jtTQygu7W4SRiEwD3kjBuhRwPhy
Nice to see more on how to troubleshoot this

Using a personal connection with a VPN.
Yeah I have a phone I can try from