But when you the hodler, HODL, and encourage everyone to also HODL, everyone wins.
I know someone would ask, "then who loses, there's always a loser". My answer, "the Nocoiners".

exactly what I tell people who put this to me. Sure, if you're in a segment of the traditional market, some loses for you to win. But in the case of Bitcoin, it is in direct competition to the traditional convention and system of money. We all win, not at each other's cost, but to eventually displace the old, corrupt, rotten system.
It is a losing system already, that isn't even in question. The only thing left to ask isn't if it can survive but when it will implode. And when it does, what can displace it?
We are all hoping Bitcoin is at least part of that future.