I did not made any lecture here, fella. You asked for help, with very limited details. So, if you keep all things in secret, I believe that no one can help you.
Due to your limited and vague details, I assumed your issues fall into those ones, so I shared those topics for you. Feel free to read them for your interests. If you don't think those topics are helpful, just ignore my post. I think I finished my replies here.
Best,