Developers not answering this last question cannot be a good sign....
On most of the coins I follow developers are at least active and responsive on the forum

Hello, MaidSafe dev here. Sorry to hear you feel that way.
I check this forum occasionally, but the main activity happens at our community forums
https://safenetforum.org/ and
https://forum.safedev.org/. We post weekly updates there and generally the team is very responsive. Please let me know if you have any questions.
What is the state of MAID development now? Does Maid has any up-to-date roadmap? I cannot find any now on safenetwork.tech/ website
The test network (Fleming) is in the active development phase. All the latest information is always available in
our detailed updates.
There is also a
roadmap on our website, it's on the 'Timeline' page.