Infidelity is unforgivable especially if you are married and have vowed in the eyes of the law to be with someone. It is also destroy a marriage or relationship.
Can you forgive them and give them another chance . Because of the welfare of your children if you already have and you do not want to destroy your family. Or you want to separate because you're hurt..
This is a serious matter since it's an issue about trust, but considering also the grounds, you also need to weight the situations, if you have kids who
still wanted to have a whole family, you need to sacrifice your ego and you to consider forgiving your partner, assess yourself on why he/she did betrayed
your vows, from that point you'll be able to understand and you can adjust for the benefits of having still a complete family.,that pain will be heal keep opening your heart and find that space where you first fall in love with your partner to lessen that pain and to healed much quicker.