Example request:Buyer: MrDeepPockets
Buyer's Refund Address: 1NASTYfxUpKPwin7b1KTBFjeeofrLSgXDJ
Seller: TheGoodStuff
Seller's Release Address: 1NastyFRkeUTmMdbMmzggDVTQA6r3ibUoX
BTC Amount: 3 BTC
Please also include the seller on the message. I will reply all to confirm receipt of coins and the address they will be released to. Once the buyer tells me the item has been received, I will release funds to the seller (typically within a few minutes/hours).
It isn't just laziness, this example really does give me all the information I need and makes it easiest for everyone involved. Please consider the elegance in simplicity.