WesandEAC, not really sure what you are getting at but I'll just leave it. Yes Bitcoin is an experiment, just like Facebook and the internet and electric cars and electricity.
As for Gox, of course they are to blame. Gox broadcast it's incompetency for the whole world to see, shining a bright light on Bitcoin instead of it's own failures as an exchange. In doing so it disrupted the economy and created this network wide attacked on bitcoin transaction malleability. If it's not Gox, I'm not really sure who else you could blame for it....