Trusting someone is not reason enough to add them to the trust list (despite the name).
We must add people to the trust list if we think the feedback left by those users is useful and fair. And it must be useful for most if we're DT1.
If someone is extremely trustworthy then they must have dark green trust but not necessarily be on other people's trust list, unless they also leave proper, useful feedback.
You can write that in public another 10 000 times, it's pointless. How many people did you PM about it and how many did listen to you? Here's a hint: They won't remove the inclusions because "friends". Circular ad naseum won't get us anywhere; either theymos changes it up a bit or very strong trust will remain a reason for inclusion for many.