Hi xbiv2,

Firstly, you don't need all those flags when starting the wallet - can you post your config file here, it should look something like this:

rpcuser=YOUR_USER_NAME
rpcpassword=YOUR_PASSWORD
server=1
daemon=0
listen=1
upnp=0
rpcallowip=127.0.0.1

plus the addnodes I posted earlier. Stop your wallet & try the following:

1) Backup your wallet.dat file
2) Delete everything except the wallet.dat file from your data folder
3) Use the above in your conf file (using your own username/password) with the addnodes
4) Start your wallet without using all those extra flags
5) Wait - you'll have to re-download the blockchain again, your old one might be corrupted.

Let me know how it goes.