Yes, i need all those flags.
Trust me, you don't. First you need to get your wallet up & running. Make sure you're using the latest wallet:
https://github.com/syscoin/syscoin/releasesUsing "server=1" in the conf file replaces the "-server" command & I'm not even sure if the other wallet commands you're using are supported by Syscoincore, but if they are you can add them one-by-one once your wallet is fully sync in case they are causing your problems.
A log file would help too.