hmm.. pardon me , I'm very confused. Do you have videos or pictures to show? I try to find on internet but apparently most of them are so difficult for me to understand..
What exactly does confuse you?
Try to explain what you understood, and we will be better able to identify the missing puzzle.
Maybe can you explain in Ethereum form? let's say the average block time are 10 ~ 13 seconds. per confirmation will be 10 ~ 13 seconds as well right?
This applies to (almost) every cryptocurrency:
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The transaction gets the first confirmation when it will be included into the block.
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Once it is included into a block. Each block which builds upon, adds 1 confirmation to the transaction.
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