OK. So you are abandoning your principles in favor of relying on theymos' words. That's fine, and as he's the admin and been here longer than almost everybody, I too value his opinions. However, you should probably take into account that he also said this:
But I tend to think that since he edited his post and seems to genuinely regret at least the public doxxing part, it'd be best to forgive.
You don't have to be big on "forgiveness" if you don't want -- that's entirely up to you. But it would be ridiculous for you to continue espousing the idea that the system should behave under your principles of "objective standards" if you yourself are unwilling to use them.
Nope, my principles are intact. Just because I don't let Vod be abusive without reaction doesn't mean I am abandoning my principles. I am not going to hold myself to these standards at all times while people can't even keep the standards the system operates under now. Of course you and your fellow toads love to have one standard for me and another for your pals. I am not tying one arm behind my back in a match the other guy is already cheating at anyway just to meet your definition of my own standards.
Regarding forgiveness, usually that includes some kind of repentance on the part of the offending party, and considering he is literally denying he abused the trust system to harass me at all, let alone the stalking and harassing behavior, I would say forgiveness out of the question.