stab theymos in the back
kissing theymos's ass
This right here seems to be your problem. Disagreeing with someone is stabbing in the back, and agreeing with someone is asskissing. You'll be ridiculed here for as long as you're unable to figure out that there's stuff between those extremes.
You might want to get back on topic though. Last I heard you're on thin ice as far as shitposting goes.