I still don't understand why these people are trusting you in the first place. The discoed channel you run only purports to have ~500 members and does not appear to be especially active.
Your discord channel says it is about "FPGA" -- is your community primarily based outside of the crypto space?
"why these people are trusting you in the first place." I'm a mod on the FPGA discord
https://discord.gg/sMCbPCM people asked me to escrow for their hardware sales, I did and I started a service afterward and the server owner decided to promote my new server. If you read the previous ANN thread I linked in the post, you can also see that I posted a link to this server already.
How can you expect everyone to be currently buying or selling something? Look at how many members this forum has, then look at the Goods subforum 40 posts on the first page with the last thread having a reply 1 week old. Out of all those threads, how many are individuals? You can't see the escrow rooms for a reason because they're private. There are 9 open trades and I'm holding 1.9 BTC right now.
You have set unreasonable expectations for yourself and I've already listed plenty of reasons for people to trust me in the first place, nothing I do or say can change your mind so I suggest you find elsewhere to post instead of commenting on an escrow thread questioning their legitimacy and suggesting that the escrow has bad intentions or is straight up a scam without even doing research or using the escrow yourself.