They say that all our life is destined, right ?
So why bother yourself trying to make hard choices in your life ?
Maybe I don't quiet get it, I want different answers from different religions even atheists, convince me..
With that,so you trusted your life listening to hearsay?because as youve said They Saythen what is literately true about what they say?
Never forget that life is ours and not theirs,so if there are something that you must do is that you are aware of everything that will happen to your life
So stop this kind of beliefs and work to feed your family because no one is destined to be strive to death lol