They say that all our life is destined, right ?
So why bother yourself trying to make hard choices in your life ?
Maybe I don't quiet get it, I want different answers from different religions even atheists, convince me..
I think because those decision will lead you to your "destiny". Every thing happened to you from the very beginning contributes to your destiny. Destiny is comprised of those parts of your life which will complete it. So, this hard choices you say, is destined for you to happen. In other words, you are destined to do hard choices and that particular situation is already a part of your destiny.