They say that all our life is destined, right ?
So why bother yourself trying to make hard choices in your life ?
Maybe I don't quiet get it, I want different answers from different religions even atheists, convince me..
I think that we were destined to live but if we do not accept hard choices in life than you do not grow and are stuck in a linear life. It is our free will ! We can definitely change for the better although it is hard.