I can't show proof of ongoing trades here... you need to join the discord. I would add you to the trade with both parties' permissions and then remove access once you have looked at it, it would intrude on people's privacy if I posted the entire chat log here...

He started asking people to dox me because his escrow funds were not returned "immediately" They were sent back within 5 days because I had to exchange my fee from BTC back to USDT to send it back.