Sorry for the confusion.
Here a little clearer, hopefully:
2-of-3 Multi-Sig-Setup Alice and Bob
Alice and Bob share the physical devices Trezor1, TrezorT and LedgerS.
But, Alice and Bob have different passphrases, in order to have different xpub's.
That means:
House: There's a Trezor1, its recovery seed and two passphrases, Passphrase_Alice and Passphrase_Bob.
Vacation Home: There's a Ledger, its recovery seed and two passphrases, Passphrase_Alice and Passphrase_Bob.
Safe Deposit Box: There's a TrezorT, its recovery seed and two passphrases, Passphrase_Alice and Passphrase_Bob.
The passphrases are per person the same across locations, but different for Alice and Bob, in order for them to have logically different wallets.
3-of-4
Too little redundancy, that's out.
3-of-5
Charlie creates the following wallets:
Trezor1 using its seed and the passphrase "Passphrase_Charlie" (substituted for an actual strong passphrase, of course)
TrezorT using its seed and the passphrase "Passphrase_Charlie" (same as with the Trezor1, but the seed is different, hence different wallet)
LedgerS using its seed and the passphrase "Passphrase_Charlie" (same as with the Trezor1, but the seed is different, hence different wallet)
Electrum_Seed_Brain: An Electrum wallet to which he remembers the seed, but also writes the seed on paper.
Electrum_Seed_GFM: Another Electrum wallet, but the seed is encrypted using Passphrase_GFM. It's intended to be sent out using GMail's scheduled sending and FinalMessage.io.
Additionally, he calculates the sha256sum of Electrum_Seed_Brain and uses that hex-string as the passphrase to encrypt the seed of TrezorT.
Locations:
Home:
* Trezor1 and Passphrase_Charlie
* Passphrase_GFM
* encrypted TrezorT-Seed, using sha256sum of Electrum_Seed_Brain
Safe-Deposit-Box:
* TrezorT, Passphrase_Charlie
* Electrum_Seed_Brain.
* Passphrase_GFM
So here are 2 of the 5 wallet seeds needed.
Vacation Home
* LedgerS and Passphrase_Charlie
* Passphrase_GFM
* encrypted TrezorT-Seed, using sha256sum of Electrum_Seed_Brain
He then uploads the encrypted Electrum_Seed_GFM to FinalMessage.io and GMail.
And he remembers the seed to Electrum_Seed_Brain.
How can Charlie lose his bitcoins? Ideally, a 3-of-5 should survive the loss of 2 seeds.
If he loses:
Home & Safe-Deposit-Box: He still has vacation home, he hopes that FinalMessage.io and GMail deliver the encrypted seed of Electrum_Seed_GFM, so that's 2 and now he has to remember the brain-wallet Electrum_Seed_Brain, that's 3 out of 5. Actually it's 4, because with the brain-wallet he can recreate TrezorT of the now gone Safe-Deposit-Box too.
(Uppercase OR and AND are to be understood in the logical sense, not in the colloquial)
Dependency: He's dependent on (FinalMessage.io OR GMail) AND brain.
If he loses:
Home & Vacation-Home: He still has Safe-Deposit-Box, that's 2 seeds and now has to hope that FinalMessage.io OR Gmail delivers.
Dependency: Safe-Deposit-Box AND (FinalMessage OR Gmail). A little better than before, because at least he's not dependent on his brain.
If he loses:
Vacation-Home and Safe-Deposit-Box: Same as "Home & Safe-Deposit-Box".
If he loses:
Brain and Safe-Deposit-Box (i.e. death): Trezor1 at home, plus LedgerS in Vacation Home, plus FinalMessage OR Gmail.
Dependency: Home AND Vacation-Home AND (FinalMessage OR Gmail)
If he loses:
Brain and something else, except Safe-Deposit-Box (i.e. forgot brain-wallet): Trezor1 at Home, TrezorT in Safe-Deposit-Box, LedgerS in Vacation-Home, also Brain-Wallet backed up in Safe-Deposit-Box.
Dependency: Only physical locations.
If he loses:
FinalMessage.io and GMail (i.e. they don't deliver for whatever reason): Trezor1 at Home, LedgerS in Vacation-Home.
Now his relatives are fucked, if they don't get the content of the Safe-Deposit-Box.
This might be a problem.