This is the hard part. Let's face it MONEY is the prime motivation. I still believe every gambler started out looking for easy money, some just managed to transition to a more relaxed "whatever" attitude while the rest remain fixated on the profit.

These are all the same thing, willpower. That is setting goal and limits and sticking to them no matter what.

Now this one is just bad. Once you start selling your family's stuff and committing crime to continue gambling you've basically reached the worst addiction point. Either you destroy yourself from this or seek rehabilitation.