Thank you sooo much everybody for very useful comments, I will PM those who have asked me to reach out to them. Am a newbie on this forum, so am just learning about 'merits', I'll be dishing them out if my newbie status allows.
I welcome more comments and advice.
Cheers everybody

I gave you 2 merits. Should take you out of newbie status more quickly.
You have a merit to give. Try to find a newbie that looks good and give him a merit.
It will help him out like I helped you out.