One factor which was missing in this equation is "skin in the game"
I second your opinion. Although I abhor the waste of resources by proof-of-work, I have to give it exactly this advantage.
Thumbs up from me for your post in the ivory tower, a good read and exactly my way of thinking.
I too abhor the waste of resources by proof-of-work, but reality is not what is fitting our wishes, but what is fitting the laws of causality. As ethically perverse as it may be, proof-of-work happens to have this probably in the origins unintended feature of introducing a powerful deterministic skin-in-the-game variable into the mechanism. Once this principle becomes clear and acknowledged, it's up to the best minds in the crypto society to find out alternative ways to force efficient skin-in-the-game variables into less waistful networks as for example Obyte.