I assure you, compared to what most Turkish members have been going through recently on this forum, this is like a walk in the park for you suchmoon, and even for timelord...
I think you're missing the point... they're not arguing that you're being bullies... they're arguing that your use of flags is incorrect. Which, based on what I've seen in this thread is correct. What are the "concrete red flags" you have seen that dealing with Timelord is likely to result in losing money?
Hint: Being "racist" =/= scammer