In your wallet go to Help > Debug Window. Choose console tab and then add each address "addr" in the post as a node
e.g. type in:
addnode 76.102.254.213:11556 add
Do that for all of the addr and wait a few mins and it should sync
Thanks for the info, I went ahead and did that, hopefully it works but if not, I still appreciate it
Add the following lines in your .conf
addnode=109.145.37.109:11556
addnode=213.114.129.89:11556
addnode=173.51.180.254:11556
addnode=137.226.148.87:11556
addnode=78.90.137.167:11556
addnode=65.29.223.85:11556
addnode=99.241.74.216:11556
addnode=72.91.197.65:11556
Of course, you will need to close the wallet before you do that. Make sure it isn't running by checking your systray and Task Manager (Ctrl + Shift + Esc). After you edit the .conf, start the wallet again and wait a few minutes. If the problem persists, post here.

Well I don't even have a flappycoin.conf now, because the OP said I didn't need it. But it still doesn't seem to connect, I did all the 'addnode' stuff too. At least I know its nothing to do with my router because my laptop works fine with the wallet.
Edit: It finally works! Wow that took a lot of trying of different things lol. Thanks a lot, I really appreciate it. I hope it may help others too