That is not really realistic. Times of stoning nonvirgins have already passed. Update your reading library.
Sex drive is a normal response of a properly functioning endocrine system. Not having regular sex causes psychological issues, insecurities, etc. All people should have as much sex as they can handle, IMHO.
Do you want to stop women from having vaginal sex? Castrate all men.
It takes two to tango.
Why is it men are responsible if they have sex, but some how women are magically absolved of all responsibility of choosing to have sex with a partner they don't intend to conceive with? Do you think sewing women's pussies shut is a funny solution? Why would you joke about castrating men to prevent responsibility for the bad choices of women? Either women are equal or they aren't. Freedom and responsibility are irrevocably linked.