Then again a person have feelings and a real man is able expressing those feeling like some just did, when someone expresses them you respond with common feeling and mutual respect, like I do feel with others, if you don't feel with someone then you just STFU and don't respond on them....
Do know everybody works different with losing people or having RL issues ... if they consider to share something in a place like this then we try to help out or be quiet when not intersted, but when we right we show respect and we never insult or anything, if you would ever write something awful happened, I would never be disrespectful or insulting and that counts for anyone, if I like or not like a person... I never wish them the worst in life.